tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16237172.post112151856720292594..comments2008-05-21T10:39:37.468-06:00girlfridayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04750662060280801265noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16237172.post-83963436173811991512008-05-21T10:39:00.000-06:002008-05-21T10:39:00.000-06:00"forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us..."Davidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03194905955624274737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16237172.post-4266348348357876102008-05-20T18:26:00.000-06:002008-05-20T18:26:00.000-06:00The victim's forgiveness is secondary. Christ's forgiveness is the most important, you are right. But we are humans who live here on earth with other humans and if a fellow human, someone we love, like, spent a significant portion of our live and or time with won't forgive you, it still hurts even if God forgives you.JEBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06808815761985641976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16237172.post-55355516433036848782008-05-20T11:33:00.000-06:002008-05-20T11:33:00.000-06:00I just watched this movie last night! And I can't get it out of my head. You're right, not being forgiven sucks. I'm feeling a bit convicted.<BR/><BR/>SPOILER! SPOILER! SPOILER! SPOILER! SPOILER! SPOILER!<BR/><BR/>Do you know what I thought was one of the most tragic effects of that little girl's lie? The fact the Lola was never able to break away from the man who raped her. <BR/><BR/>One of the saddest, most amazing movies I've seen in a long time."Molly McGee"http://www.blogger.com/profile/06688519490810890179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16237172.post-13266758864673302002008-05-19T21:35:00.000-06:002008-05-19T21:35:00.000-06:00Haven't seen the movie, but I can say that forgiveness from the victim won't mean much until the perpetrator has forgiven him/herself. And ultimately, if the perpetrator knows he/she has been forgiven through salvation in Christ, the victim's forgiveness is secondary.Lives in a Shoenoreply@blogger.com